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Therapy for People Pleasers

I help people pleasers set boundaries without worrying about disappointing their people

You can have a life where the people around you celebrate you for being... exactly who you are.

Sound refreshing? 

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Hi! I'm Erin and I want to help you get deeper than you have with talk therapy in the past... 

. . . so you can actually shake out of the patterns that are keeping you stuck

. . . feel less anxious in your body

. . . and finally say what you want and need without worrying about disappointing your people

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People Pleasing
is layered

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It's hard to set boundaries if you're:

  • Not sure what you want and need

  • In survival mode (do freeze, fawn, and dissociation sound familiar?)

  • Used to being the peacemaker and taking care of everyone else

  • Surrounded by other people who either rely on you being a peacemaker, or who are also peacemakers themselves

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You don't need another vent session.

You've tried to figure this all out on your own or with a different therapist

 

When I talk about "emotional jet lag" (when your body and your brain feel like they're in different timezones), you know what I mean

​Life is kinda telling you "stop putting this off"

You've checked out my vibes and you feel excited about working with me

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Every week, I talk to clients about:

(because people pleasing intersects with each of these topics)

Communication

Relationships

Jobs & Career

Dissociation

Parenting

The body

Neurodivergence

The body

The body

The body

The body

Family & Family history

Substances & Sobriety

Identity

Our world

Identity

This is your moment

Imagine yourself 5 years from now. 1 year from now.

 

What does Future You need from You today?

If you're ready for some accompaniment on your journey, I'm here.

If you're the "I wanna read more and research the heck out of this" kinda person, here are your next steps:

If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please dial 911, call/text 988, or chat 988 online.

Alternatives to 911 can be found here.

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